The Magic of Love...............anyone believes in it today???

LOVE.....................

As soon as we hear about this magical word ............. the horses of our imagination start galloping...............
n I think this is a very natural n beautiful process!!!!

Love is such a beautiful feeling which starts in our Life as a Blessing as soon as we are born..............in the form of our Mother............she is the first one to teach n show us or rather shower lots n lots of Love!!!!!
Gradually as we grow up , Love comes through family.............parents, siblings, grandparents..........n extended family.
Our whole Childhood is showered upon and is full of Love!

But.......... as we grow up the feeling gets dampened ...........n distorted.

As grown ups.............how much Love do we show.............
Do we have the time even to tell our loved ones that " we love you" ????
We are running in this blind race ...................without realising that one day we'l be stranded!!!!! Standing ALONE!!!
All this Money, Success, Position, Status, Material Possessions etc. will be of no use!

Today daily newspapers, media etc. are full of reports of falling apart relationships............be it of children n parents; husband n wife; siblings...............etc.

The Best example that comes to my mind is that recent Gruesome n Coldblooded murder of a couple in AshokVihar by the girl Monica's Brother.................

The fault they had committed was , they believed in Love and the person..................the divine bond which a brother n sister have , between eachother since childhood.......................they could not suspect that coldblooded IDIOT.......(sorry to use that word but can't think of anything better)!!!!!

Its not a crime to choose a lifepartner of one's choice....................but it seems so that some backward n fanatic people are poisoning the minds of these young people so much so that they loose their sensitivity.........brains........humanity..........love ..........EVERYTHING!!!!!

Likewise Divorces have increased manifold as compared to previous years ................

Certain times one comes to read of really interesting reasons...............extramarital affairs being one of the major reason, non-compatibility another, ..................the list is infinite...............

In one's longing for lust n sex, some people forget to think about the other half.........n more important , the kids attached to that relationship!!!!!!!

Does anyone have an answer to my humble query..........What is the fault of those innocent n sweet souls who are equally affected???

Being totally self centred and selfish ............one partner goes into a sexual or an extramarital relationship..............reason or logic whatever be!!!........... the affected half walks out of the marriage.............files a divorce............n years pass by fighting with eachother in the Court of Law!

Did anyone think about those poor souls??
Their only fault is that, they were sent into the world by God, as a gift of your Love for eachother!!
So where does the love eventually go??
Or am I forced to believe that there is or was nothing called Love.............all that is or was ,.......
is simply LUST or crude SEX!!!!!

Please give it a Thought...........

Ask those people who due to some reason or the other have not got at all , or have been deprived off , this precious Gift of Love in their lives................
thousands of orphans in orphanages.........or elders abandoned in oldage homes.......... widows............. widowers................ or those who have not found n got love.............or the cruel hands of Destinyor Death has snatched them away....................the newspapers are full of obituaries.......... of old n young alike!!

Cherish Love............feel the Divine Magic.................feel like someone blessed...............

God showers Love in everyone's life in some or the other form ........... family, friends, spouses, siblings, kids, etc...............

Thank Him for his Divine Blessings..............instead of Cribbing for what we are deprived of ...........Thank for whatever one has!!!!!

Try to Forgive n forget n see the divine magic of Love spread happiness in our lives!

We just have to realise we are Blessed!!!!

I would like to conclude with a nice thought I happened to come across............... am trying to interpret it in this context............

"You must understand that even if just one of us, starts lighting dark lamps with the candle of Love and Happiness.................the result will be a chain of lighted lamps , who inturn will spread it ahead and then, there will be no room for Darkness"

So .................Thank God for his uncounted Love..............n value it!!!!!
Keep Smiling ...........
CHEERS

This is Smita.D.Kumar with a Mind full of chemical locha ............... and its wild set of thoughts and ideas!!!
7th July'2010
Delhi